Introduction: Everything You Need to Know About Men and Relationships Is Right Here 1 -- 1 Mind-Set of A Man -- 1 What Drives Men 11 -- 2 Our Love Isn't Like Your Love 19 -- 3 Three Things Every Man Needs: Support, Loyalty, and the Cookie 37 -- 4 "We Need to Talk," and Other Words That Make Men Run for Cover 49 -- 2 Why Men Do What They Do -- 5 First Things First: He Wants to Sleep with You 61 -- 6 Sports Fish vs. Keepers: How Men Distinguish Between the Marrying Types and the Playthings 69 -- 7 Mama's Boys 85 -- 8 Why Men Cheat 95 -- 3 Playbook: How to Win the Game -- 9 Men Respect Standards-Get Some 115 -- 10 Five Questions Every Woman Should Ask Before She Gets in Too Deep 129 -- 11 Ninety-Day Rule: Getting the Respect You Deserve 147 -- 12 If He's Meeting the Kids After You Decide He's "the One," It's Too Late 163 -- 13 Strong, Independent-and Lonely-Women 179 -- 14 How to Get the Ring 193 -- 15 Quick Answers to the Questions You've Always Wanted to Ask 205.